Wednesday, 4 June 2008

The wardrobe edit

I'm also having a good clear out and cleansing my wardrobe of the old and unworn. It's not as easy as it seems. Funny, as I'm a trained personal shopper and can spend my days clearing out clients wardrobes, instructing them what to keep and what to lose - we call it The Wardrobe Edit!
So, I'm now taking part in my own wardrobe edit and though it's tough to decide what is for selling or swapping, it's also quite therapeutic. I've discovered a whole host of items that have lurked in those clear storage boxes we all loved and bought in the 90s from http://www.theholdingcompany.co.uk/. I even found some items that I have never seen before in my life. which means one of two things:
1. I shop and buy in my sleep, then carefully fold, stack and store the sleep shop items.
2. I have generous friends and family who shop for me then hide my presents at the back of my wardrobe in the vain hope that one day I will find them and thank them for said gifts.
It's a spooky mystery, but I thank the wardrobe ghost for my new clothes!
I decided to place one of the 'found' items up for swap on whatsmineisyours.com and I have already received a great swap request for a black wicker bag that will go perfectly with the black strappy dress I swapped this morning with a radio alarm clock! One whole new outfit in one day!
Here's my top tips for wardrobe editing:
1. Don't get distracted - turn off the phone, make a cup of tea and ensure all outside distractions are tuned out for the next hour (for major shopaholics double or triple this time estimate).
2. Have clear ideas of why you are doing this - you need to be in the right frame of mind, be concise, level headed and on no accounts must you do this when you are going through the following: a break up, a bereavement, a fat day, a thin day, a new hair colour day.
3. Have bags at the ready - make sure you have bags to separate out items - charity shop, swap, sell, car boot... ...oh and keep!
4. Take everything out of your wardrobe and lay it on the bed - it looks less daunting once it's out in the open.
5. Don't get too mercenary - don't get carried away and lose the whole lot, there are always some things you may regret later.
I'll leave the rest of the wardrobe edit tips to SarahM....
..Over to you Sarah xx

Tuesday, 3 June 2008

It Begins...

Well, here goes. I will start by introducing myself. I am fairly average. I live in my average house, with my average boyfriend, driving my average car, earning my average wage. And like everyone else, I am also averagely skint. My household bills have gone up, my petrol costs have gone up, my food cost have gone up. Unfortunately my desire to have fancy dresses and novelty shoes continues to climb radically. Should i compromise on style because i have no money? Should i buy disposable and unethical clothing because i can't afford to buy quality and gulit free? Well, I am going to try to live for a year, one whole year, the good way. No frivolous spending, no ridiculous purchases just things that will contribute to my wardrobe significantly. By that I mean things that i will actually wear and will last. I also want to spend as little as possible, I am going to attempt to swap, sell, barter and hunt my way through the next year and end up with a better, more practical and more environmentally friendly wardrobe.

Firstly i need to sort out what i have before i can even thing about aquiring new things. I have two wardrobes. One in my bedroom which i share with my boyfriend which is full of the essesntials like underwear, tops and skirts and trousers. However i do have another. The special one. I love vintage clothing, particularly dresses, so much so they have their own wardrobe in my spare room. Luckily I have a job where i can flounce around in ridiculous and impractical dresses all day long if i fancy (as long as i wear an apron) so i do have a lot! and to be fair, i do wear them. However a proper sort out of both wardrobes is essential (even if scary) before embarking on a radical lifestyle change.

So I will begin with the big one, the everyday stuff. I shall return in an hour or two....

Well the approach i chose i think was quite liberating and very very satisfying. Basically I emptied my wardrobe onto the bed. So I had to conciously make the decision to keep each item that went back in. The best bit about doing this was I could see everything. And i mean everything. It made me feel quite guilty, as just looking at the amount of stuff i have made the fact that i still want more a complete joke! It also meant i could shut the curtains, strip off and try stuff on. Mix and match things, try things out with things i'd never thought of.

So what i have learnt about myself from sorting out my main wardrobe?

I am not a shoe or a bag person. Aparently i am a scarf person. I have 16 scarves, and thats not including the ones in my car! I am not even counting neckerchiefs, just full on, wrap up warm, woolly winter scarves. Is this excesive? Most of them have been gifts and/or hand knitted by me so technically they haven't cost me any money. And as it is gearing up for summer, I will leave them in their box for now, as logically, people will want to buy or swap things they can wear or use now.

LESSON NUMBER ONE: Under no circumstance should i buy, knit or swap for any more scarves. I have enough.

I have also suprised myself a bit too, I have discovered a monochrome black and white 60s shirt I love but never wear goes perfectly with a vintage high waisted velvet skirt. Two items i never thought of putting together and probably would have either got rid of or ignored for another couple of years if i hadn't gone mad and torn everything out of my wardrobe! However, I have also discovered a problem with my wardrobe in general. I love bright colours and patterns, so obviously, i have lots of items with patterns and bright colours. What i lack is the plainer counterparts that go with these things. I could wear them together but i fear i may look more mad than usual wearing a bug print stripey shirt with a strawberry print skirt.

LESSON NUMBER TWO: novelty prints and bright colours may be fun, however i need to prioritise plainer skirts and tops. I must not buy these on a whim!

I didn't do the standard 'If i haven't worn it in the last two years i'm getting rid of it' method as at heart i am a hoarder and there are certain things i will keep for sentimental and fairly daft reasons. I used to have a gorgeous purple corderoy pencil skirt that i wore to death and even though it was faded, I still loved it. One day in a fit of madness i put it in the bag for the charity shop because i hadn't worn it in a while. I regret that to this day. I want my purple skirt back! So I would regret it forever if i let go of the first thing my boyfriend bought me, a gorgeous beaded French Connection skirt. So expensive at the time and very 1920s, but i never go anywhere fancy enough to wear it! Maybe the next lesson should be go places that are fancy enough to wear such things! It would also break my heart to get rid of any of my band T-Shirts, I have Pulp T-Shirts, Supergrass T-Shirts, Yeah Yeah Yeahs T-Shirts, Strokes T-Shirts, and i'll not mention some of the others! Each one was bought at a gig or a festival and holds a memory. They don't take up much space and i love to wear them with my battered old jeans in the summertime.

LESSON NUMBER THREE: Don't kid myself, there are some things that are destined to be part of my life, even if its not as a wearable, functional garment. More like a piece of memorabilia. However it is very important that i don't use this as an excuse to keep everything!

Onto the things i need. I use need quite loosly obviously as i could probably not buy anything for the rest of my life and not wear out the clothes i own. I should really say The things i want to balance my wardrobe.

1- Plain skirts and trousers to counteract the shear amount of ridiculous patterns and colours in my wardrobe.

2- Part A - The next issue to address is shoes. At work i am on my feet a lot, i have to go up an down ladders and need shoes to be comfortable and practical. So I seem to have got into the habit of buying cheap pumps, wearing them out and then throwing them away. Not only is this extreemly bad for the environment but it can't be cost effective either. If I spend £5 a month on a rubbish pair of pumps that make my feet smell like rubber, I could have spent £60 on a pair of really good quality shoes which will be better for my feet and not end up in landfill within the month. Unlike most girls though, I hate shoe shopping. One foot is bigger than the other, I have wide flipper shaped feet and nothing ever seems to fit right! However, this i feel is the first thing i should sort out. I must be on the look out for a pair of sensible, comfortable, good quality yet stylish shoes for work. Do these even exist? I must wear out the shoes i currently have though but if i see an appropriate pair, I have to investigate.

2- Part B - Going out shoes. I have an amazing pair of yellow shoes. The most perfect shoes ever to exist, very high yet extreemly comfortable. I have danced the night away in these a fair few times. However i wear them everytime i go out. I would like a little variety. I would also like a little Vivienne Westwood! Having been to the Exhibition at the Millenium Galleries in Sheffield (http://www.sheffieldgalleries.org.uk/) I have reaffirmed my love for the great lady and have also developed a deep yearning for a pair of her shoes. Suddenly, everywhere i go there are Vivienne Westwood shoes that are out of my price range! Second hand will obviously fit in with my experiment, however i must make some money before i can spend it!

So I have sorted out my main wardrobe. The special one is to follow. Tomorrow i will photograph and count all the things i have sorted out today and list them on http://www.whatsmineisyours.com/ to swap or sell. I feel like I've made a good start and am ready to start my new lifestyle! I shall update this with photographs tomorrow.

The perfect swap

It's sort out day! Yes, I've started cleaning out my wardrobe and have stacked up a load of items that I no longer wear but someone else may love. So, I'm posting my items on http://www.whatsmineisyours.com/ to see if anyone is interested in swapping. I'm open for all offers for my unwanted items but I do have a girlie weekend in Barcelona and a few Summer/Autumn weddings in the pipeline. So, I'm on the prowl for maxi dresses for the Barcelona trip and a few special dresses for the weddings. To my surprise an email popped into my inbox this morning with what could be the prefect swap! I have a pair of very expensive Yanuk jeans, bought on a whim from Selfridges a few years ago. I think I paid around £140 for them but each time I put them on they just don't seem to fit, so onto whatsmineisyours.com they go and they have already attracted the attention of a swapper who would like to trade for a beautiful vintage inspired dress worth £200 - perfect for an Autumn wedding. I've asked her lots of questions regarding the fit and condition of the dress and it just seems perfect. I'll be posting out my jeans tomorrow and expect to receive the dress before the end of the week.

Friday, 30 May 2008

Welcome to our money saving experiment

As seasoned shopaholics and vintage fashionistas we pride ourselves on our well picked out wardrobes. Each item has been lovingly bought, sometimes on a whim, yet always with passion and conviction. So why have we amassed so much stuff? Let me introduce myself as Miss frugal. This is my new name, as this year will be different, this year I will try to spend as little as possible on clothes, shoes, hats, tights.... ..Scary thought as new season collections continue to roll into the stores, as I walk through my high street and see the new window displays at my favourite high street stores. Dresses beg me to buy them, Malene Birger just created a new season collection of dresses that were simply made for me. But I must resist. I must try to account for all I purchase, I must resist! So, what other options do I have to live from June 2008 until June 2009 without cracking open my credit card each time net-a-porter pops in my inbox. Well, I'm going to go back to basics, I'm going to swap, sell and bargain buy my way through the year. Whilst I'm on the 'utilising what you have' tip I will also be trying to customise and create new stuff. So, I'll try to learn how to make clothes, to turn dated items I have into new and updated styles. I'm going to trawl the net, read a few books, take some classes and try to bag as many bargains as I can. Everything will be posted here on the frugal fashionistas blog. So if anyone wants to join in or give helpful tips along the way then you are more than welcome. The shopping drought starts here!